The 3-3-3 Rule when Adopting
Feline Freedom Society advises following the 3-3-3 rule when adopting. All of our cats and kittens come from difficult or uncertain circumstances, which means new environments, people, and routines can feel overwhelming at first. If your new cat doesn’t act the same way they did when you met them—or how they were described in their bio—that’s completely normal. It takes time for an animal to feel safe and secure, especially if there are other pets in the home they have never met.
The 3-3-3 rule helps set realistic expectations:
- First 3 days: Your cat may be nervous, hide, or seem withdrawn while they decompress.
- First 3 weeks: They begin learning your routine, gaining confidence, and showing more of their personality.
- First 3 months: They feel fully at home and form deeper bonds.
We recommend starting your new cat in one quiet room to serve as their home base for the first few days. Once they’re comfortable, you can gradually allow them to explore the rest of the home. If introducing them to other animals, slow introductions and positive reinforcement are key—such as letting pets smell each other under the door, feeding them while they can see each other from a distance, and rewarding calm, positive behavior with treats. Patience makes all the difference in helping everyone feel safe and successful. Depending on a cats personality, it may take more or less time than this rule, you know your animals best and if they are ready for the next step in your home! If you have any questions or concerns about how your new cat is adjusting, reach out to us and we will try to guide you in the best way possible!